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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I meet this one guy i while i was in a relationship that was going so bad well we talked and it was supposed to be a one night stand well it didnt happen like that we ended up being really close we joked and talked and loved eachothers company he then told me he was in love with his ex i accepted it and set myself up for the worst but we still continued seeing eachother and messing around even when we told eachother we wont well my roomates didnt like that to much because they were over protective with me and told him off he stoped talking to me thinking i wanted to start drama i relized i had more than just feelings for him i loved him 2 weeks went by when i found out i was pregnant by him my roomates told him and we started talking about what we were going to do and when we figured what we were gonna do he kissed me and looked up and asked god what he supposed to do who is he supposed to be with long story short i had a misscarrige and that brought us closer he began getting jealous of guys i talked and he always asked me to tell him where i was going so at least he knew i then moved to palmdale and we kept in touch but now we talk only 3 times a week but for hours our last converstation was that he wanted to move because he couldnt take waiting for his ex it hurt him to much but the funny thing was i call ed him because i had this weird feeling he was upset which was really weird because 3 nights before me and my ex got into an argument and he called me beacuse he said he had this weird feeling that i was crying. I never told him how i feel but he knows and i dont want him to go what should i do i am so confused i fell in love with him
Since you are in love, you must continue to communicate with him.
Share feelings, have long talks, and be honest. This will increase the trust that is so important in a relationship.
Finally, continue to be affectionate at whatever level you both feel comfortable.
Communications, trust, and affection are three of the most important aspects of a good relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com