Grabbing a Guy for a Kiss
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, theres this guy i really like he's 21 i'm 16. me and him have been friends, but not close friends for about 2 months. me and him talk alot and he has told me he hates girls hitting on him so i don't know any other way to tell him i like him alot! He thinks if a girl hits on him he thinks she's a slut so i dunno. I'll catch him flirting with me alot but how do i get just one kiss off of him? or a friendly peck.
Hmmm, this guy is telling you he's tired of girls chasing him to use him, and the main question you have is how to grab him to use him!! The most important thing you can ever do to show someone you like them is to be FRIENDS with them. Spend time with him, do things with him, listen to him, go to movies, go to eat, just go for walks. The more you guys get to be friends, the closer you get, the more obvious it will be that you like each other. Start giving each other hugs hello and goodbye. Let it build slowly. If you just go diving for your kiss, you might find he puts you into the same category as the other 'mindless girls' and that you've lost your friendship.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com