I love Him but it never works
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok i have been in this on again off again relationship for a 1 year and 4 months.( my first love) It started off and there was no problems but then the fights started. Me and this guy who we will call bob would fight and he would become very angry and say a lot of things and the more I would cry the more angry he would get. I would always try to make it better but actually was making him more angry. He treated me good a lot of the time about 6 months ago I started not to trust him because he did a lot of things to make me not and he would get mad because i didn't trust him and I would accuse him of doing things our fights are really bad and lately the bad days out weigh the good. I really want to work on it we are broken up now and he has already been with another girl and came back to me. I know that the way we act causes the fights but i need to find a way that I can be with him and control the accusations and let him have his own life with trust .
He loves me and I love him but we both have been really hurt and it has been really dramatic for a while, I know that he is that one but i feel as though it is never going to change and that he is nearing never going back to my drama. How can I save my relationship stop the fighting and be happy.
Lack of trust seems to be what causes the fires.
Trust is one of three very important aspects of a relationship: communications, trust, and affection. Troubles in one of them usually result in troubles in the other too.
Tak a look at this website which will give you good advice on trust:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com