i want to get closer to her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
this girl in my school for 4 years i do not know her n never talk to her untill recently i just get her contact and sometime talk to her via net or message i have never talk to her before personally so my problem here is i do not know her well i told her before i like her and she just say that we do not know each other well n it is immpossible for us to be together.And there is a guy who like her and he is her classmate so now i m in a disadvantage position he c her everyday n ppl in the school know that he lik her so he stick wif her all the time and but i can'tnot afraid of ppl gossip as ppl in the school know about it cause i do not know her well plus i m afraid to let other know that i like her so i m in a disadvatage position. i know now the problem is we are not close enough to talk about relationship so i m trying to get closer to her but i there is a limit as i mention above i did not even talk to her face to face before and from my understanding she do not really know mi well i get her contact from the net we started talking and she tell mi she seldom saw me in school i am thinking to date her out but i know she will not accept me as i m a stranger to her so i have a real problem here is i cannot get any closer to her anymore. I saw that guy that like her stick with her in school everytime walking veri close to her and often send mushy messages to her i know they haven't start any relationship yet now i am lost i do not know what to do me too want to walk closer to her send her love message but i can't how would a person react if he or she receive this kind of message from a stranger so plz help mi i m lost now
Sorry you are in this situation.
Take advantage of what you already have... and that is your ability to contact her through the net. Try to become as close as possible by sharing feelings and thoughts together. This is one thing that attracts people.
If possible, say hi to her at school, just to establish the personal contact that will make you two closer.
Other than that, you are really stuck in a box and will need some good luck to get out where you can really get to know her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com