She's flirting on Purpose

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Right here's the thing. I like one of Closest friends and it's a girl and she's straight. I'm Bi and i have gone through alot of things since before the summmer holidays.

This lad kept Flirting with her and I get so angry day after day so much that I gone through my very first thoughts about Suicide. So everytime I see him i get so angry and everytime he interfears with anything to do with me, I ended up yelling at him and getting into trouble by teachers. I just want to smash him in the face with a Branch. I am NOT going through Depression.

Before he flirted with her. I told her that I liked her and she accepted me for what i did, But now, I think that she's taking the advantage of it (Like accepting flirts from this guy in front of me and ON PURPOSE!) and not caring about it at all. I think that she doesn't really know how much it hurts inside me and how much it wanted me to die after all this that happened to me.

Is something wrong with me? Am I taking it too far? and Why Do i Bother trying when she's straight and doesn't like me back? Advice
First off, if you become suicidal please immediately call an emergecy number or reach a medical professional.

There is nothing wrong with you... like many people you happened to fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back. You are going to have to learn to deal with it. Ask yourself what is good for her and what does she want. If you really care about her you will let her go her own way.

Your anger is understandable, but so is the flirting that is going on.

Try to find someone new.

Good luck! George

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