falling hard for a long time friend and getting shut down
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok ive known this girl for a long time. over time we have became very close friends. well recently i started having feelings more than friends for her. i finally got the courage and asked her out. she said i was too good of a friend and she wasnt sure if it would work between us because of that. i was crushed. well it seems that we just keep getting closer despite this. she will always make time to hang out with me and always makes a point of saying she loves me before we leave. ive told her how deeply i feel and i just dont seem to make a differance. should i keep playing friend and give up trying for a relationship or should i just try to wait it out and slowly try to become more? please help this is killing me every time i see her.
Just let thing go ahead the way they are.
Continue to let her know you care for her and time may work in your favor.
Make sure you hug her hello and goodbye and try for a kiss on the cheek too.
This physical contact will attract her to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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