is the 5th time a charm??
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
This question is about my ex-boyfriend of 4 times!!!We'll call hime *Antonio.The 1st time we were together it was for 5 months...until I took a trip to NY during his brithday weekene(my uncle was getting married!) and while i was gone he kissed my friend when i came back to Nashville i ended it immediatley and i repaired my friendship with my friend.The 2nd time was for 3 months...i ended it because we went to different schools and there were too many temptations.The 3rd time was for about 1 month(i think!) and that ended..well i can't remeber.Now the 4th time,i remembered it clearly:It lasted about 4 months & it started with a lie...for about 1 month before he got back with me he was going out with a kind-of friend of mine but i thought they had already broken up-nobody had told me differently so when i found out they were still together i told him he had to choose-he choose me!!But at the time i was starting a new school and new FRIENDSHIPS & REALATIONSHIPS-with 5 other boys my ex found out through a note that me and my friend(that kissed my ex) were writing and later on my ex invited all his friends over to his house(including me!) and his brother(who used to have a crush on me,but i chose *Antonio over him) were going through my purse and found the note and he gave it his brother which then led to us ending our relationship mutally-and agreeing to try again at a later time.Which brings me to now:After all the kisses while we weren't together on Sat. he asked me if i still like him-i sort of do but i know that sincce i'm startng my sophomore year at new school with my friend(that kissed my ex the 1st time) and she's turned out to be my best-friend and i know that if i do go back out with him,either i'll end up cheating on him again and my friend will tell him while i try to keep it a secret.I'm trying to find a boy that i can LOVE...in May i ended a relationship with a boy that i thought i loved and it ended on cheating,also...so i guess i actually have 2 questions:1.How can i end my cheating streak? 2.Should i go back out with with my ex or not?
Thank you for the advice??
If you are cheating, it's because you are not happy with the guy you're with.
Since you cheated on your ex, that is a sign that you are not right for each other.
My advice is to enjoy your new school, make lots of friends, and date other boys. This will work out better in the long run.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com