Worried About the past
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Okay i truly love my girlfriend and she truly loves me But in the past the people ive love dhave hurt me before and cheated on me. And when my girlfriend came along And we became A couple I was truly happy And i love her But she was honest to me and told me how in the past she cheated on her old boyfriend When she went away back to her country Peru for 2 months. And she never told her last boyfriend about it and she tells me how she regrets she did it and she would never hurt me like she did by cheating. Well she is leaving for peru in a few months again. For about a month. That will be the longest time me and her have been apart. And at the moment im just a little bit frightened that it might happen to me. and she also talks to the guy who she cheated with still over the internet. Should I be worried about this or should i just trust her and let her make her own decision. I know she loves me and i love her. But im still worried it could happen...
You trust her, that's the important thing.
Tell her you trust her and that you are not going to worry while she is away.
This will make her feel that you love her and encourage her to be true to you.
She has learned from her past mistake.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com