Why did i cheat?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well, i have been in a wonderful relationship for 10 months we spend EVRY FREAKEN day together. sure it awsome sometimes but at times i want to run. he drives me nuts and does stupid things, like calls 1 thousand times, go nuts when i dont see him, etc. i love him im sure i never been with anyone liek him yet i wnder what is out there. but what if i got out there and noone is like him? then i recently cheated on him with my ex'x sisters fiance. we didnt have sex we just fooled around but its still cheating. he tells me he wants me then says no its wrong but contradicts himself all the time. i actulally dont feel bad about cheating even tho i love my boyfriend but i really liek this guy. im so confused i dont know who i want, and i dont know why i cheated if i never did that before. i have to admit my boyfriend drives mii cuko but i love him. but man i like thiz other guy his so hottttt! how can i stop? what do i do? im so confused. especially when i think im starting to fall for the other guy. worst of all his getting married in less than a month. yikes! but i dnt want to lose my man. but i want the other guy. ahhh confused. plz try and help.
Forget the engaged guy... he is taken.
Start talking more with your b/f because he is driving you crazy. Concentrating on him will help take your mind off the other guy.
Communication, trust, and loving will bring you back together.
You cheated because these three elements were weakened.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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