What's Going On?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My ex gf and I recently got back together but things with her are kind of confusing. One minute shes up and the next minute she's right back down. My heart tells me that this has nothing to do with me and more to do with her but then I keep racking my head for some answers. Today, I saw her briefly and this guy asked her out but she pointed to me as if to say "I'm already going out with him." She turned to me and told me that he knew they were already friends as she had told him that's all she wanted. She seemed kind of happy when I would talk to her one minute and the next minute she looked like she was in outer space. We still say I Love You to each other but I don't know how to approach her whole happy/way out there attitude. How I should approach this problem to get piece of mind for myself and help her deal with whatever she is going through?
A good thing would be to try to communicate more with her.
Something is troubling her and if you gently and lovingly bring up her down times she may have an idea of the problem. Encourage her to talk when she is feeling down and that it is ok to share bad feelings. She needs to hear you show an interest in her problems.
Give it a try! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com