What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
OK, I really need some advise here. I really like this guy. We kind of dated for a while but it didnít last for too long. We felt we were both moving to fast and just wanted to be friends for a while and get to know each other. Trouble is I really like this guy a lot and I canít take my mind off him. But I keep getting mixed signs from him, One minute he says he likes me and the next he says he doesnít and itís really frustrating but my instinct tells me he does. Anyway, the other day he told me he does care about me but he just doesnít know what he wants and he told me not to wait for him. So this really cute guy started chatting with me and now we both like each other and want to date. But Problem is when I told the guy I like that I wanted to date this other guy he got real quiet and I think he got a little jealous because he was good looking. When I told my friends about the situation I got mixed advice from different people half said that if I really liked him it would be worth the wait and the other half said that I shouldnít wait for him I should let him come to me, then the other half said that if I liked this guy and I date another man he might not be interested anymore so now I donít know what to do I need some help and fast!
It's time to have a deep conversation with the guy you like.
Be open, honest, trusting, and caring. Tell him you really like him but he is putting you off and telling you to date. Now you have found a cute guy you like and are ready to date him.
Ask the guy you like what his feelings are on the subject. If he says go ahead and date then do it. Who knows what might develop with the new guy. And maybe the guy you like will come around and want you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com