Dating a divorced man
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Simular to many situations, I am dating a man that I have known for a little over two months. He has been divorced from his wife since Dec of last year. He went a few months without looking for anyone until we meet. Since then we've enjoyed many happy times and wonderful talks. I still worry that this could be a rebound relationship for him because his ex wife, although has she has re-married, she irritated and pressures him with child support. However things that have happen in the past, such as passed relationship and the horrible things his ex wife put him throught, still fears him and effects our relationship in serious way. We have discussed our fears. He assures me it is over and truly wants our relationship to continue to grow, but he's afraid and not willing to get married again, well so he says. He also said he'll never date again, that was before me. My question is what should i do? I need your advice to help think things through before it's too late.
He is gradually getting over his divorce.
First he resisted dating but then found you.
Now he says he will never marry again but that is unrealistic for him to try to make a decision so soon. Give him a year and he will probably see things differently.
Meanwhile, enjoy the time you have together and grow to know each other better.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com