Is she interested in getting to know me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I know a girl from school in which we've have had our "moments" where she stared at me and I smiled back for a moment. We've said a couple of things to each other online, but never spoken to each other in person even though I'm sure she probably tried a couple of times to cross my path in order for me to strike a conversation with her. She does give me a lot of attention. The last day of school she saw me first, but was with another guy (very sure she is single). She dropped her books and made sure he was picking them up, but smiled at me the whole time and gave me all of her attention. They didn't say goodbye to each other, she kept smiling at me and went on to class. The only thing that puzzles me is that I asked her how her summer was online and she didn't say a word back, although she also hasn't been talking online to anyone else recently. I do want her to know I'm interested in getting to know her and I'd be more than happy to ask her out, but I don't want to come off too strongly. I'm bad at asking girls out too. What do you think I should do? (sorry that it's long)
Keep trying to get a chat going online with her.
If possible get her phone number and give her a call. Girls enjoy hearing a boy's voice on the phone just as you like their's.
It seems that she likes you so don't give up easily.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com