is this a really BAD idea?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
me and my first gf r really close friends. i OCDed though cuz i didnt know what to do. but she has like me SEVERAL times, but i didnt like her so she just got mad at me. but last night she called me at like 10 and we talked til 2:30. note we were both fully nude and talked about mastruation and love and sex most of the time. she has a bf but he live in Mass. and they only IM. i wanna break up with my gf now who i dont like that much, and i know she'll dump her bf for me now. seeing by my age range (13-15) u know that it waz a lil weird we were talkin nude. but we both agreed that if we were with each other right then we would hav sex. she doesnt want to lose her virginity til shes lik a year or 2 older. but still we r so close. r we WAY 2 young? if we both really love eachother is it still bad? Advice
You don't know this girl very well yet.

If you do become bf/gf then spend a good amount of time getting used to each other and their body and what they like. Going to sex too soon will just make it less meaningful and therefor less enjoyable. This is why many people wait until marriage for sex.

It is good that you two can talk so openly together. That will make it easier for all of this to happen.

Good luck! George

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