can this work out and can he like me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok i met this guy on the internet. i got his address from my brother and he never came online and when he finally did i talked to him and all.. thats when i started to wonder about him. i hadnt seen his picture or anything but i was always excited to talk to him when he came online but he only came from like 2pm-5pm cuz thats where he worked,. hes was going to high school at the time.. then i saw his picture and i thought he was soo handsome i started to get infatuated...so then i kept on talking to him while we were on spring break but barely got the chance after school opend for me. and i was always excited n wondering when im going to see him onilne again. now he graduated from high school and is going to college.. the college is in gainsville miami and he lives in miami florida..the problem here is that i live in belize ,central america. i tried adding a few of his friends so i can get to know them a bit better but they do not know me and it seems as if they do not like me.. on of his friends lies to me i know its lies he's saying and he keeps telling me that the guy i like likes me bak..and this other friend of his just completely blocked me for no reason at all.. he didnt even give me the chance to say nothing to him and he doesn reply to my msges on myspace. anyways i keep talking to him a bit except now i think he knows that i like him and he hasnt said anything but has definately changed in the way he talks to me.. he used to answer before now he takes so long to do so. my brother lives there and knows him and i am doing my best to go there to meet him and hang out a lil so he gets to know me a bit better.. my fears are that hes judgemental and that his friends talk about me badly eventhough the DO NOT KNOW ME AT ALL!!!! on my birthday he was the onlyone to wish me a happy bday on myspace but when a friend i trust that knows him told him " isee you left a comment on her profile fo her bday" he said yea i was just being nice.. can that mean anything? and i dont know how to act anymore cuz im desperate cuz its grown from infatuation to love.*sighs* and i am afraid that anything i say he can take it wrongly and get mad at me for no reason like his friends did.. i think he has lied to me too because i asked him why he doesnt come online at night he said its because hes only home for dinner and sleep. my brother says he lies that hes at home most of the time. i dont know what to do anymore. i am suppose to go to college there next year but until then i want to get to know him and stuff a little better and i just dont know what to do anymore. if i go to study there however im not going to the same university as he is we'll be like 4 hours away but ill prolly still see him during holidays... for now i want is to be his friend . as best a friend as i can be to him but it doesnt seem as he's allowing it.. wht do you think on this situation? i need your opinion and what you think is going on,?!?!?!
TOTALY and madly in love at long distance
One of the difficulties of a long distance relationship is that it is difficult to figure out what the other person really feels.
Your best bet is to listen to what your brother has to say.
The guy you are interested in doesn't even answer you communications. That is not a good sign. And he lies to you.
Keep trying to make progress with him. Have your brother show him pictures of him or put your picture on the web so he feels closer to you.
Good luck in this difficult endeavor! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com