if she says no then what
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i've danced at the same studio as this girl for many years and liked her for most of them. she doesn't go to the same school as i do and she's a little older than me. she is more outgoing than i am. we're in the same group and she is good friends with most of them. i am just afraid of what everyone will think if i ask her out. if she says no then i really wouldn't feel like sticking around but i don't want to quit. and i am shy and nervous around her and i don't even know if she even kind of likes me. help
Usually I recommend approaching the girl and asking her out.
However you have mentioned a number of roadblocks and hesitations that make me think you would be better off finding someone in your own school to ask out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com