friends to dating
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a guy friend that I've known for two years, we've always been flirty with eachother etc. but never more than the normal friend stuff like hugging and goofing around. Lately we've gotten closer, he tells me things that he doesn't tell his guy friends and little signs here and there(more touching and attention, lots of eye contact, saying 'i miss you', and, saying how tired he is but that he'd rather stay up talking to me etc.) give me the sense that there may be more to it than just friendship. I have feelings for him too and am hoping that I'm not reading more into this than there is. Is there some way, like reading body language or something, that i could tell it is more than just a growing friendship? and if it is more, how do i move on from there? Thank you!
It sounds certain that he is romantically interested in you.
Get things out in the open... both of you will be happy you did. Tell him you are attracted to him and ask him how he feels about you.
It sounds scary to do, but it really isn't. It's an honest human question that needs to be asked.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com