What in the world is she doing??
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ok so me and this girl had been seeing and talking to each other for the last two years. She would call me literally every day and I would call her and we would go and hang out often. About four months ago she started talking to another guy. At first she would be short with him and tell me how much of a jerk he was because of all the rumors she had heard about him. I told her she deserved much better. Finaly after about a month of ths guy constantly calling her she clearly started liking this him and began to blow me off to talk to him and hang out with him. I got mad about this. She still called me every day but the phone calls got shorter and shorter. Even though she called me daily she still would end the phone calls with me as soon as this other guy called. Finally I started ignoring her phone calls. She would text and call me two even three or four times every evening. I figured if she was gonna blow me off for this other guy after all that she told me about him, she must not think too much of me. Eventually we got into a huge fight and I asked her not to call me back ever agian and she stopped calling me for a while. Suddenly about three weeks later I started getting phone calls on my cell from a restricted number. I had missed about four of these phone calls in a five day period. On the Wenesday after I had started recieving these phone calls I answered and it was her. We ended up talking for about thirty minutes or so. The following Saturday she calls me back and asks me to help her out, she needed someone to "make her laugh"? Earlier that evening she had evidently gotten into a fight with this guy she blew me off for. At first I didnt have the heart to tell her where to go and how to get there so we ended up talking for an hour and a half. The following day she calls me back and I ask her why she had started calling me back. Once again, we ended up getting in another huge fight and I told her not to call me back. She tells me if I really wanted her to stop calling me that I would get my number changed. I ended up hanging up on her and didn't hear from her for another week. The next Sunday she calls me back up to apologise for all she had said about me and I apologised to her too. Now I still hear out of her atleast once every two weeks. I havent once called her in the last three months since she started talking to this other dude. Every time there's been contact between us during this time it's been her calling me. I even recently started seeing another girl and as soon as she caught wind of this, she called me back asking me all kinds of questions about my new girlfriend. She asked me if I was really over her and if my new girlfriend is going to really make me happy she even wanted to talk to her. Every time she calls me now (which is about once a week) the dude she blew me off for "convinently" calls her up and she ends up hanging up with me to talk to him. It's almost as if she's trying to make me jealous. She has in the past (before we started fighting) told me that she wants to be with me one day when she's ready. What in the world is up with this girl??
Probably she is trying to make her new b/f jealous.
She may also have some leftover feelings for you but only enough to call every once in a while.
Your new g/f is probably making her jealous too. Leftover feelings again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com