He's in 7th, I'm in 8th & does her like me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hello, you can call me Di. Well here is my biggest problem, the shcool year is almost over in a week or so, and I have had a crush on this guy for over half of my eighth grade year. He is with me in my math class and four of my lunches. During my lunches, just like any other girl, I see where he is and have a few glances while eating lunch. I notice, and other of my friends as well, have noticed that he is looking for someone too. I suppose that is me because we have a vibe type of thing. He's always joking around with me. I am a very sarcastic person and whenever I am with him we have these sarcastic type of jokes. He's with me in math, I sit one row to the side and one seat behind him. Well, its more like I sit in another row behind him. He's always looking to the side, looking at my way. Now, since I moved my seat in math, he doesn't do that anymore sinc I am sitting right next to him. We are constantly exchanging letters, but there is another girl in the picture. One day I was going to have lunch with him, but I decided to have lunch with an old friend of mine. Like usual, I am looking where is sitting. Then, I notice he is with another girl, but I am not sure if he likes her. Sometimes I get jealous because he is someone I really like. Then, I have my best friend. She considers two people from different grade levels that are dating "interbreeding". I havent told her I like him, but she continues it. I love her to death. Shes my best friend. Its sorta hard to hear these things. I'm sorry for the long essay, but I'm so confused.
Tell your friend you are going to do a shocking and daring thing... you are going to try "interbreeding."
Make it into a sarcastic joke and she will probably laugh. If she doesn't explain to her that's the way things are done in high school.
Then take advantage of the short amount of time you have left to pass him a note asking him for his phone # and internet names because you want to be able to talk with him during the summer. Give him your info at the same time you ask him.
Once summer starts, ask him to a movie or something.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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