is there hope
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My husband and I have been married for almost 7yrs and 10 years together. We have two young children. He left 6 weeks ago because I have anorexia. Since he left I am in counselling and have gained 9lbs. He says he loves me and is still very attracted to me but does not know if we can be together again. We have issues involving my mom and my insecurities. I am currently working on all these problems in therapy and daily on my own. He says even though he misses me he is happier now that he does not have to be constantly around my problems. He says he is not closing the door on us but does not know what the future holds. He wants me to get better for myself which Iam doing. Do you think there is hope? How long will it take me to prove to him that I am really in this for good (Iwant to be better and normal)
It's good that you are making progress on your problems.
Your husband will certainly notice the changes if you continue to gain weight and solve other problems.
My best wishes are with you. Invite him over for a his favorite home cooked meal and kill two birds with one stone.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com