She's gonna brake us up!

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
HELP! My gf and i have gone out for 6 days but have liked each other a LONG time. But a friend of hers (and mine)said she would break up with me after this Middle school dance in 5 days! i call her 1 to 3 times a day, WAY OCD, but im limiting to 1 call every 2-3 days, maybe weekends only. but im not the greatest dancer (i suck like crap) and i don't want to break up with her. my past gfs both said i was OCD, so i need all OCD tips, and what else i need to know. i love her, break up not an option! try to get back soon. Note: We are at hugging stage and i'll get dumped if i kiss her, she told me. i feel as the weaker link in this. thanks for ur time! Advice
Well, you are probably at the dance as I write this.

Sorry not to be able to get back sooner.

Remember you are young and have plenty of time to work on your own problems and those of other people. Everyone has problems of some kind.

You are able to get girlfriends. This is a very, very good sign and shows that you are heading in the right way.

The biggest tip I can give you is to relax, act like your natural self, and don't worry about what other people think. Sometimes it's not easy to do that, but keep it in your mind. Always smile at people and say hi. This will help you be more comfortable with others.

Good luck! George

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