i am shy about introducing myself to a girl what should i do?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am in a situation I'm almost 15 and I like a girl and I don't know what
to do about this can you please give me some advice regarding my situation
everyone is telling me to go up to her and introduce myself to her but I
am shy' what should I do?
Yes I will tell you exactly what to do.
Every time you see her in the hall or wherever, look her straight in the eyes, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and give her a big smile.
Do it exactly the way I said... the clear voice means that she has to be able to hear you. Saying her name makes her feel good.
If you are lucky, she will say hi and your name back. It may take her a few days for her to this.
Once you feel comfortable doing this and things seem to be going ok then it's ok to walk up and introduce yourself or just ask her what's going on.
Remember girls are just as shy as you and they want to meet boys just as much as you do. You have to be brave to make this work... so go for it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com