Reasons I think he will or has cheated on me...
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend found out this girl he used to like works at the local Walgreens. Later, when he was cleaning out his pockets, out came a scrap of paper with her name a number on it. I told him I was uncomfortable with their relationship because of past problems where he would become at least emotionally intimate with other women. He told me he would not talk to her. But I later found emails in which they were being very flirtatious. In one of the emails he was telling her he wanted to take her to a concert but that he had to get his other ticket back from someone. That someone was me. He did end up bringing me, but I can't help wondering if there is something going on. He sometimes won't come home after work for long stretches and he has primarily female friends. I feel like this is going to screw me up when I try to have future healthy relationships, because this one is definately over.
Since this relationship is over, tell him and tell him why.
A new relationship will be different. Every partner brings something new to the table. Don't judge everyone by past experiences.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com