Advancing with my current interest
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have recently been getting more involved with a girl lately who, at first, I did not know very well. We recently went on trip to California for some school related activity, and we started hanging out more and talking a lot, and quite frankly getting close. While there she often sat close to me, layed on me, gave close/long hugs, put her arms around me passionately and showed me a great time doing miscellaneous activities. On the way back we sat together on the bus and she eventually fell asleep on me,and as the ride got longer she slept closer and closer to me in a more gentle and passionate way. I responded by putting my arms around her and holding her the way she cuddled against me.
My question is how do I respond to these actions and advance in this seemingly close bond we are forming? I don't know how much she like me, but that is not what i'm asking, just advice on if this means anything and what I should do to make her feel comfortable and loved back by me. Did I do the right thing? What should I do next time?
Definitely call this girl and ask her out or to hang out.
Keep in mind though that when people are on vacations and sitting by each other on busses that they will naturally bond together. She may have been more affectionate that she really felt.
So you need to keep the ball rolling if you want this relationship to improve.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com