I want him back but he has a gf
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am still in love with my ex. I broke up w/ numerous times thoughout the course of our relationship (1 1/2) and i was going back and forth between him and the father of my child. He always took me back and continuously confessed his love for me, but i was so stupid and didn't realize what i had at the time. When i broke it off the last time and tried to get him back a few weeks later he told me that his number would not change and who knows what will happen in the future...but right now he could not trust me not to hurt him again. So it has been almost a year and he has a gf that i think he has been with for about 6 mon. but he still asks about me through our mutual friends and from what i hear smiles whenever my name comes up. So i decided it was time to call him, and i did but he was at work. When i asked if i could call him later he said "yeah, i guess", so i dont know if i should or shouldn't. He talked to our friend that we have in common and mentioned that i called, but nothing else. I really feel like he is made for me, so should i fight for him, or give up since he has a gf?
Call him and tell him how you feel.
Don't be surprised if he is not eager to hear it. You have hurt him a number of times in the past and he has a girlfriend now.
You have nothing to lose.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com