Confused about his feelings
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been seeing this guy for about two months, at first everything was fine we were hanging out all of the time. After seeing each other continously for three weeks we decided to have sex. After the sex everything was fine or so I thought. We were still talking on the phone, just not going out places together anymore. A week went by and my friends told me they heard he was living with a girl who he was very serious about. I confronted him and he denied it, and also got very upset. After the confrontation he went three days without calling me so I called him and he acted like everything was fine with us, so I dropped it. Another four days went by and he didn't call. His cousin who is also his bestfriend called me and asked if I wanted to come over because he was talking about me constantly. So I said yes. We hung out for about three hours and I had to leave. He walked me to my car and we kissed for a good 3min. We made plans to watch a movie on Saturday so I called him on Tuesday to tell him that I got the movie he sounded excited about it, so I called him yesterday to verify the movie and he didn't answer. I tried calling him again today and he didn't answer the phone. So here is my question. Why does he go so long without calling me, and then act like everything is fine between us? Why hasn't he taken me anywhere? Was I being used for sex? Thank you for your help.
There is a chance he is using you for sex.
He is very secretive and neglectful. Talk to those people who told you he is living with someone and see if you can get more details. Then try to check them out.
You deserve more attention than you are getting and you need to find out why.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com