Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
All love that has not friendship for its base, Is like a mansion built upon the sand. --Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Confused about his feelings

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been seeing this guy for about two months, at first everything was fine we were hanging out all of the time. After seeing each other continously for three weeks we decided to have sex. After the sex everything was fine or so I thought. We were still talking on the phone, just not going out places together anymore. A week went by and my friends told me they heard he was living with a girl who he was very serious about. I confronted him and he denied it, and also got very upset. After the confrontation he went three days without calling me so I called him and he acted like everything was fine with us, so I dropped it. Another four days went by and he didn't call. His cousin who is also his bestfriend called me and asked if I wanted to come over because he was talking about me constantly. So I said yes. We hung out for about three hours and I had to leave. He walked me to my car and we kissed for a good 3min. We made plans to watch a movie on Saturday so I called him on Tuesday to tell him that I got the movie he sounded excited about it, so I called him yesterday to verify the movie and he didn't answer. I tried calling him again today and he didn't answer the phone. So here is my question. Why does he go so long without calling me, and then act like everything is fine between us? Why hasn't he taken me anywhere? Was I being used for sex? Thank you for your help.

RomanceClass.com Advice
There is a chance he is using you for sex.

He is very secretive and neglectful. Talk to those people who told you he is living with someone and see if you can get more details. Then try to check them out.

You deserve more attention than you are getting and you need to find out why.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Getting Closer to Someone

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com

Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


Follow Me on Pinterest

Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!

RomanceClass on Facebook

Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues

| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

Italian Wedding