what should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
first of all I am 19 and my ex is 22, we dated for about 2 years and 8 months we have been broken up for 2 weeks now ( my choice) and we also lived together with my parents. we had a couple of breaks in there but the breaks were not really breaks cause we were always together I love him with all of my heart but when we were together we always argued and fought. the good times in our relationship were great but it was almost as if the bad usually out weighed the good .. he was my whole life since we have been broken up the first week was a peice of cake it was everything I thought that I wanted as the days go on .. so does the heart ache it seems to get worse everyday ... is this normal or is my heart trying to tell me something my parents tell me that I should just move on and find someone new but I compare every posible " next one" to him i feel fine when I am around other people but at night It seems to hit me do you think that I just feel like this cause I am alone and that I should find someone new or should we try to patch things up between us ... please help me I am very confused .
It's only been two weeks now.
Don't make up your mind until you give it more time. As you said, you are probably just suffering the initial shock of being alone.
In any case, if you change your mind later you still will have the chance of going back to him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com