Should I Tell My 21 yr old Friend About how I heartbroken in the pastVisitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
This is another concern about My 21yr old disabled friend who I have a crush on. I need to know if I should tell him I was heartbroken in the past(I was heartbroken by two guys, you know about My first boyfriend but My third boyfriend I found out from a classmate that he was using me to make his girlfriend jealous we were on and off for about 3 months till I broke it off and He was affectionate that was 10 yrs ago.). If we start a relationship, I need to talk about the heartache I have, I still have feelings for my first boyfriend and want to get over it and have no feelings for the other what should I do
You can tell him about your heartbreak but don't be overly dramatic about it.
It will be good for him to know more about you and that should draw you closer together.
The reason you should be calm about it is that he will be put off if you make this into a drama. He will worry that you will have the same feelings about him and place an emotional burden on him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!
All Advice in the category - Getting Closer to Someone
Browse our Answer Database- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response
Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.