i am head over heels for my best friends ex
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok this is sounds kinda bad but me and him have talked about it, we both feel the same way and we dont think its that weird. this was her first BF so thats why im wondering if its kinda weird for her. i know, i know, out of all the guys in the world, her ex, its not like that though. i am only aloud to date people in church and there arent many. this guy is amazing to me. hes so funny and sweet and i cant get him out of my mind. they have been broken up for about a year now and they went out for 6 months and werent that close.she knows we like eachother and doesnt seem to happy about it, so i was thinking i would give her some more time and then talk to her about it again. what do you think i should do to make this work cuz me and this guy REALLY like eachother?
You and your guy should go right ahead and do what you want.
It's been a year since she had a lukewarm relationship with him and she has no claims to him now.
Smile at her and talk with her to let her know that you like her and there is nothing personal.
Since he is so nice you should grab him while you can.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com