dunno what to do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hello! i trie ur advice to start walkin round school alone but is not working coz i can see that my gf wants to be with her friend aswell!
anyway im really upset with my friend J* who comes and sits with us he was so annoying today coz it was the schools paret and he was talkin about girls tits and dirty things like thAT infront of me and my girlfriend and he ruined my mood and i just shut up and wasnt taking part in the conversations and my gf was and she seemed to have a good time! shall i try to show him that im pissed off at him? like text him dat he is being an asshole since i told him before that i dont want him to talk bout things like that in front of my gf! my gf was askin me what was wrong with me but i just didnt want to say anythin! i want to tell her how i feel but im too afraid that she wont understand me! what should i do ? both with this guy that thinks he is being cool with all his jokes ( we used to be gd friends) and shall i say anything to my gf??
Ask your g/f if it is ok if you walk alone half the time and hang out with her friend the othere half.
You can tell your friend and your g/f that you feel uncomfortable with his language and subject matter. It is understandable why you feel uncomfortable but I wouldn't advise let it become a sore point because that would make your friend and g/f uncomfortable. It is better for you to learn to live with it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com