A blog problem
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Sorry for asking for another advice so quick. But I felt so different now, after what has happened.
Here's what happened. 2 days ago, I was pretty upset when A* told me something about she thought she made the wrong decision about D*, she said she like someone else and I was pretty mad at her because she seems like a b****. I told her I dislike her after what happened lately and I totally hate it when she and D* talked about their relationships and I don't want to offer any advice coz:
1. I don't feel like it
2. I'm pretty messed up myself with B*.
So I told her to solve the problem herself and there's something else, I found out that A* is a bit too religious and that creeps me out when she told me to believe in God and what she did in her youth group during camp,something about falling in front of the might of God (by the way I already believe in the Lord, perhaps she doesn't know)
She didn't say anything, but I got the impression that she's pretty mad at me for not giving her any advice on what to do.
She ignored me the day after and I decided to do the same, but then I still couldn't stand it, I reckoned that I gotta help her somehow (after she was still my mates). So I wrote a blog and tell her what to do, told her that stop being a b**** and think twice before you do anything crazy, then I txted her to told her to read the blog.
Well eventually she did and D* saw it as well, those two went angus at me. D* said I have no right of talking about A*'s love life and he demanded me to delete it...Then I was like, I was just trying to help my mate. A* said she doesn't care about what I thought and she also wanted the blog to be gone. So I removed the blog immediately and those two are still pretty mad at me. A* asked me what is wrong with me these days, I can't tell her what I was thinking coz it'll just cause another fight.
I wished I could hold on to someone through this, I still can't find B*. I don't have her number and I really don't know what to do about B* and the whole friendship between me and A*, I can feel that we are drifting away and the friendship is falling apart.
Was I doing the right thing by helping A*?
Is there anything I can do?
p.s. sorry again for asking for advice so soon
You didn't help A* by putting here situation on the web.
After all the bad things that went on between you two she was not going to take your advice where you called her a b*****. Your relationship is probably shot with A*
Ask one of B*'s friends how to contact her and maybe you'll have better luck with her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com