I want her back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
me and my girlfriend brokeup about a month ago. we have been dating for about 9 months and this isnt our first relationship. i think weve had about three relationships over the past five or six years. the hard thing is that i cant get away from her. her parents and mine are very close friends, we go to the same church, we have alot of the same classes together. when we were dating everything was fine. She said that she loved me and i replied the same to her. then all of a sudden out of the blue whe just told me that things were just different now and that she just wanted to be friends. when he broke up she told me that if we were not friends that she would be hurt. im a very nice an carring guy and i still love her, and ive realised that i dont want anyone else but her. ive given her her space that she said she wanted, ive only caller her once since weve been broken up. She keeps on calling me and shes sending me mixed singals. Ive tried to distance myself from her but the farther away i get from her the more i want her back. i just need some advice on how to make get her to love me again.
If you want her to love you again, you should try to be her friend.
You only called her once in the two months you've been split up and she keeps calling you. That shows she is still interested in you even if only as a friend. But friendship can turn into love. So be her very good friend and see what develops.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com