Is it even worth it?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My ex boyfriend and I were dating for about 6 months and then it was over. Things moved fast, we lived together and spent every moment we could together. His family and friends did not accept me, but he stayed with me because he loved me. We were fighting a lot and he couldnít take it anymore. I was left absolutely heartbroken. About a month later he shows up at my house asking to get back together. Of course, I took him back only to have him break up with me again 3 days later. Two weeks pass by and he shows up at my house again asking if we can be friends again, he had just ended a fling with a girl he knows I do not like. We started spending time together again. only we canít go anywhere because he doesnít want anyone to find out. We spend maybe 2 days out of the week together but talk everyday. He says he would like to be with me again but doesnít want to deal with the things his family and friends will say about it. He goes out to bars with his friends and I'm not ok with it but I pretend I am. I went out with friends and he flipped out on me. Now every time I say Iím doing something without him he gets mad or wants to come along so he can make sure Iím not with anyone else. When we spend our alone time together its like we were in love all over again. I still love him but I donít know if this is worth this so-called friendship we have now.
So you have a friend who doesn't want to be seen with you, only visits twice a week, and who goes out to bars but won't let you.
One thing is for sure... he doesn't love you or if he says he does then he doesn't know what love is.
You should tell him to straighten up or you are going to move on. You deserve better treatment than he is giving you.
Stand your ground and maybe he will get the message! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com