what's she feeling?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have dated this girl for 4 1/2 years then i decided to end things for a while because i had new situations going on that i needed to sort out, after about a month I realized i needed her in my life and we started hanging out again for about 2 months, she went on a family vacation and all, about a week after the vacation out of the blue she said she needed space, she wasn't over our original break up, her mom was also just diagnosed with cancer, that was october, we started hangning out again in dec, and by jan things seemed good, we saw eachtoher 3 times a week at least between jan and feb. then again out of no where she told me she needed space. It makes no sense to me, she won't tells me she thinks she wants to be with me but she doesn't want any doubts and also with grad school at night a full time job and her mother being sick she can't commit to our relationship 100%. I am just very confused as to wheather I should wait or not. o and a week after she told me she needed space she wanted to spend her birthday with me. I am jsut very confused. Thanks
She is overwhelmed with her life's necessities and you are not that committed.
Put those two factors together and the probablility is strong that your relationship is not going to last.
She still has feelings for you but they are outweighed by her full time job, night graduate courses, and her mother's cancer.
If you two have a long honest caring talk with each other my guess is that you will come to the mutual conclusion that a breakup would be best for all.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com