Why am i still thinking about him?Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
About 3-4 weeks ago i broke up with a very special guy (call him C*). We did so many things together. I thought i loved him but it was just strong feelings.I broke up with him coz my feelings just weren't the same, i think he was just too much 4 me. I felt a bit tied up. But he's those guys you DON'T find often, he's like 1 in a million. He said he loved me , always will. well after we broke up i only cried like a baby because i really broke his heart. I came in2 his life ,changed his life for the best, made him in-love with me then broke his heart.
Any way i've moved on now, i'm dating a guy, call him T* (18 years old) and getting to know him first b4 we move on. Plus i just dont wanna rush in2 another relationship.The guy i'm dating is also now CRAZY over me and thinks i'm gonna change him and says he loves me but i told him its not LoVe! He says it is, that he's never felt like this b4.(nothing new)
Any way we might be a couple very soon.But T* does things to me that reminds me of C*! I litterally sometimes see T*'s face as my ex, i think i'm going crazy when i do alusenate. I don't want my ex, don't wanna break his heart again.I like T* A LOT! But i discovered that i end up thiking about memories of my ex, i get all blue when i do.If i had to hear that he got with agirl I'd prob get upset.i don't like C* more than a friend but why do i think of him soetimes. I LIKE T, i only want him! I'm so confused bru!
Thanks Naughty* Angel*
(15 years old)
Stay with T and your thoughts of C will slowly disappear.
It's natural to think of your ex for a while after you split up with him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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