what shld i do
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
well its been 4 months now since i broke of with my gf i met her 7 mnths back when we got admission into PG course from thereon i realised that she is intrested in me it took me almost 2 months to decide whether to go ahead with her or not coz i always wanted to concentrate on my studies, but finally i cud not resist and even i had to admit for her sake that i do love her (and i seriously do love) we went together for almost 1.5 mnths but finally i started realising that there is another guy in our class who is a very close friend of hers is also int in her, i even told my gf that he seems to be intrested in u but she kept on denying it finally, they both started getting close to each other and one day i read a message in my gf's mobile abt that guy expressing his love. i always knew there is something going between both of them but finally saw it . now the main problem is that my gf , that guy and me are in the same class which makes me feel jealous coz they share everything togehter and i dont.further my gf denies that there is something between both of them and say that they both r just good friends and she seriously loved me.
i dont know what to do i feel like going back to her but everytime i c something between both of them i lose
She apparently still loves you and you love her.
The problem is your jealousy of the guy. You need to fight against that jealousy because it can ruin your relationship.
You can fight against jealousy by telling it to go away and stop bothering you. Do this 100 times and the jealousy will probably tire and give up trying to bother you.
Here is a webpage with six tips on curing jealousy:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com