Relationship with ex
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
What's Up George How's it going good I hope.I know you guys are probaly tried of me coming to you all with different stuff but i have nobody else to talk to.I told you what happened on Valentine's day and if I could change anything about what happen that day in the cafeteria I would but check this out.After what happen I knew she was mad at me and I had a feeling that she was going to call me and just like clock work she did. She called me and asked me what was wrong with me i told her nothing but she knew that was a lie.She ask me why did i do her like that and I told her that I was mad because V-Day had came around and it made me mad because we were no longer together,and that it was because every single day I had to look at her and know she was with someone else and that it really hurt to know she was no longer mine.Then she told me that her and her boyfriend had broken up but I didn't know until then when she told me.Then she ask me if I wanted her to still call me and talk and I told her it didn't matter she could if she wanted to.And ever since then she's been acting really strange toward me when I see her in the cafeteria at school she tells me to stop looking at her but I know she's probaly doing it out of anger at me to get back at me for doing her like i did.George that's the type of stuff that makes me want to just say F-it all and walk away but I know I'll only end up hurting her and myself if I do and besides my heart wounldn't let me even if I tried cause I care for her to damn much that's my problem and she doesn't really see it.I'm trying my best to be her friend or what not but it's only getting harder and harder.Cause we went from being girlfriend and boyfriend to natural born enemies. I know you cn't make up my mind for me and I can't make up her mind for her but what should I say to her to get her to listen to me.Anything would help.Thanks for being so understanding George.
I don't understand why you do certain things unless they are all out of anger.
She told you she had broken up with her boyfriend and asked if you wanted her to call you. Instead of saying yes you just told her to call if she wanted to. That answer would only make her mad. Why not call her and tell her that you want to talk with her because you don't like the way your relationship is going. Try to talk out your anger without getting angry.
My guess is that she would be very happy to talk with you.
Good luck, George
p.s. giving you advice would be easier if you used the same email address each time you write. Thanks.
-- from George
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