I want my family back
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
In short, my husband and I have been married 11 years and have 3 kids. I cheated on him and now we have been separated for 2 months. I really want him back. I am on anti-depressants right now, getting counseling and have gotten spiritually closer to God. The problem is he may be falling for a girl he met after we got separated. He has told me that he cannot come back to me because he doesn't trust me. We get along even though we don't see each other that much. What more can I do? I don't want to lose him forever.
As you are getting counseling, you should be listenting to professional advice.
My observation is that what you have going for you are the children and the finances. Make it clear to your husband that you want custody of the kids and that he will be paying child support. This may make him realize that a divorce won't be easy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com