how to get over the past
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i was dating a guy for five years, we both cheated in our relationship and i got pregnant i am due any time now, we got back together and now he says that he dostn want to be with me at all, i still live with him for lack of nowhere elese to go and he is getting serious about this girl he has been talking to. i get so jealous and he hates that side of me, he says that he dosnt want to work out the relationship he just wants me to move out. i told him that i would try to change the things about myself that bother him and to please give us another chance. is there anything that i can do to get him to change his mind, or to stop talking to this other girl. i tried not calling him and just living here like he was invisible but it hurts so much to see him talk to another woman. please help me. thank you
You are due right now.
Since your ex isn't feeling very good about you now, it may be made worse by your physical condition. He may also feel threatened by the need to provide support to a baby. Money and time.
Wait until you have the baby before trying seriously to get him back. You have too many other things to worry about now. After the baby is born he may see things in a different light, although this is not very likely.
Then make sure he knows you still love him and want to stay with him. He would have to be a cruel man to make you and the baby leave the house with nowhere to go.
I wish you a lot of good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com