be there for her

girls doesn,t like the nice man,i,m not saying to be mean and jurk.don,t try to by her affection in food and gifts,don,t wait for permission to do something.always be honest and always i repeat always be there for her and ask what problem.don,t wait until your heart beat accelerates,don,t wait and think about the perfect thing to say,hopping she will be looking at you or imagine how your conversation will be just don,t do about how pretty she is and not how sexy.sorry about my bad english & talk to u soon