Coming On Too Strong

Flirting is about subtly drawing another person into your world. Itīs not flirting when a caveman clubs a cavelady over the head with a club. Itīs flirting when the lady at the bar looks down the bar at you through her bangs, smiling quietly before she looks back into her drink. Itīs about those little tugs, that allure.

If you come on too strong, you risk scaring off the flirtee, who might be unsure of how to react. Try starting out slow - you can always increase the pace later, as you get a feel for the person youīre flirting with!