Outer or Inner Attention

When you go out with your partner, are you watching to see how envious others are? Are you trying to make an ex jealous, or wanting to show up at a party with a ´cool date´? If so, that´s not love. You shouldn´t be trying to impress others with your ´catch´. It should matter more what you and your partner think of each other, and how you care for each other, than what others think of you as a couple.