Is she really interested?

This is probably one of the oldest questions in the world :) Thatīs why there are so many love-o-meters and horoscopes out there, to try to figure it out.

Really, you have to sit down and be open and honest with your partner. Talk about what you both feel about the relationship. A lot of it depends on how long youīve been together. If itīs only been a few weeks or months your partner may still be sorting out how he/she feels. After a year or two, though, it should be pretty clear if this is what you both want or not.

It all comes down to openness and honesty, and communicating well. Choose a quiet time that you both feel comfortable and able to talk for a while. Be a good listener.