What are you REALLY looking for?

Sit down when you have a few hours of quiet time, and write down what qualities are really important to you in a mate. Then look at the things you have written down, and examine each one. Are they *really* important, or are things that your parents or friends have *told* you are important?

If you wrote down things like "money" or "handsome", could you be happy with someone that was perfect for you in other ways, but was not rich or gorgeous? Be sure that you are not excluding your soulmate because of preconceptions others have convinced you are very important.