Are U Thinking about having an affair with someone who you "USE" to be in love with(EX lover).. Before you make the mistake I did. ASK YOURSELF can you handle your CURRENT MATE finding out! Ask yourself if they found out would it bring you to your knees in PAIN. If so DO NOT even think TWICE about it! The PAIN you will FEEL WILL NOT COMPARE to what your current lovers PAIN will be! Please dont think twice! Just tell your EX to MOVE ON!