okay' so your an your girl/guy have started dating, but you,ve hit a barrier- one of you is too shy. so the best thing i,ve found is to just get used to each other, take it easy an wait till your both ready, otherwise it may become a memory neither of you will remember for the right reasons. one thing i can suggest is give your partner signals, if your hugging, gently pull their face closer to yours, if you do kiss but want a little more, begin experimenting with different kisses to heat things up a bit. there are loads of great kisses you can try right here on this sight so don,t be shy, pluck up your courage an go for it! hope that,s helped y,all 'p