Argue smart

Make rules for how youŽll settle arguements before you argue. Decide to take turns saying "IŽm sorry." Time limit your arguements. You SHOULD agree never to take an arguement to bed. You don't have to actually find a solution to the argument - sometimes that can take days of discussions to find a workable solution. But when you head to bed, agree to disagree until you can work it out.

If you stick to your rules, youŽll find the arguements donŽt take over your relationship.