How to cope when she cheated on you?

My wife has cheated on me and been seeing another guy for 3 months now. I was partly to blame for the break-down between us, so I guess we both are victims (but the perks are a bit unevenly distributed!).

What I found helpful is to write about it. I started a blog. Look it up, perhaps reading it will take your thoughts away from your sorrow for a moment. Or perhaps you,ll start writing one yourself - even better!