It's alright that the person you're inlove with might be a 25 year old guy and you're only 14. Always remember that if you're still a minor and have an adult lover, think first before you act. Pick someone whom you trust, not just because he's handsome or she's pretty. Hesitate and say NO to sexual intercourse or too much intimacy, and always remember to speak your mind. If the person wants to do things you don't want to-be honest and tell them, even if you think it will hurt them. It will be the best for you and your relationship. :)