Too much tongue is offensive

When kissing, minimize tongue usage! Nothing is more offensive than a big, thick, wet tongue darting in and out of your mouth like a damn jack hammer. You need slow, sensuous movements & dont put it too far into his mouth. Gently tease his tongue & lips with light/soft flicks - oh and dont open ur mouth too wide unless he is guiding you in that direction. Even when its completely passionate...control ur tongue ladies!